Unlike straight men, straight women have always had a prominent place in gay bars. “Girl,” she said, “At least once a week now …” There was the group of girls that jumped the stage as I tried to perform “Dancing on my Own”-now isn’t that ironic, Alanis? There were the ladies who came screaming to defend their girlfriend as I ribbed her in the audience. As I struggled to regain control of my show, I thought, hey, haven’t I been fighting this fight a lot lately? I asked Ms.
